Jul 1, 2021
She called me a sex god. I laughed, but knew I may have earned it!
Gents... this show is going to get seriously personal. We’re talking oral sex, bedroom routines, easing anxiety, ethical porn and more.
A few years ago, my friend Lance Salazar, author of The Miracle Morning for Couples, gave me a copy of Dr. Ian Kerner’s book, She Comes First.
Long story short: six months later, my wife was telling all our friends that I’d become some sort of sex god (not kidding).
It wasn’t until I was in my early 40s that I started to learn how to really light up my wife.
We cover a lot of ground on the show, including a look into the work behind his new book, So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex: Laying Bare and Learning to Repair Our Love Lives.
Some of the topics I discuss with Dr. Ian Kerner:
- What does variety look like in a healthy sexual relationship?
- The $2.00 purchase that saved my sex life
- The one thing that needed to happen, for my wife to beg for sex.
- Are your routines (sex scripts) killing your love life?
- What are your core erotic themes?
- How do you create variety in a sexual
relationship?
Is there ethical porn and has porn become problematic? - Do men need to manage masturbation?
- If you’re kids bust you having sex, is that traumatic?
- Why our cultural norms surrounding sex leave people dysfunctional, depressed, and without sexual self-esteem.
- Why dominant cultural narratives fail to honor female sexuality.
- Why guys should be talking about sex more often.
- Why do sex scripts fall into predictable patterns or just get boring?
- The common threads of sex scripts that work.
- Why anxiety is the enemy of arousal
- When should we talk to our kids about sex and pornography?
- Is there more trauma for a child in seeing their parents have sex, or feeling that their parents lived in a sexless marriage?
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